Born: 1 October 1665, United Kingdom
Died: 14 March 1685
Country most active: United Kingdom
Also known as: NA
The following is excerpted from The Learned Lady in England 1650-1760 by Myra Reynolds, published in 1920.
Mrs. Evelyn (1635-1709) and Mary Evelyn (1665-85)
John Evelyn’s flattering letter to the Duchess of Newcastle, already quoted, with its list of learned women, his suggestion to Lord Cornbury that he add two ladies to his gallery of notables, the trouble he took to conduct a party of ladies to see the girls’ “colleges” at Hackney, and various references in Numismata (1697) indicate a genuine interest in the intellectual achievements of women. Mrs. Evelyn seems at first to have been of a different temper. She wrote as follows to her son’s tutor, Mr. Bohun, in 1672:
Women were not borne to reade authors, and censure the learned, to compare lives and judge of virtues, to give rules of morality, and sacrifice to the Muses. We are willing to acknowledge all time borrowed from family duties misspent; the care of children’s education, observing a husband’s commands, assisting the sick, relieving the poore, and being serviceable to our friends, are of sufficient weight to employ the most improved capacities amongst us. If sometimes it happens by accident that one of a thousand aspires a little higher, her fate commonly exposes her to wonder, but adds little to esteeme. The distaffe will defend our quarrels as well as the sword, and the needle is as instructive as the penne. A heroine is a kind of prodigy: the influence of a blazing starre is not more dangerous, or more avoyded. Though I have lived under the roofe of the learned, and in the neighborhood of science, it has had no other effect on a temper like mine, but that of admiration.
But these very letters, in which Mrs. Evelyn disclaims learning, would be a capital point in refutation of Macaulay’s charge of general feminine illiteracy. In subject-matter, in style, and in the mechanics of writing they show a development not unworthy of that “roofe of the learned” under which she dwelt. At the time Mrs. Evelyn wrote the letter just quoted her daughter Mary was but six years old, but her literary and artistic tastes must have soon become manifest, for when she died of small-pox at nineteen she was an accomplished young woman, on the road, apparently, to be the dangerous “blazing starre” her mother decried, and her training must have been going on for ten or twelve years in the home with the active connivance of her parents. Her father was exceedingly proud, not only of her excellence in dancing and music, but especially, it would seem, of her passion for books. She had, he said, “read abundance of history, and all the best poets, even Terence, Plautus, Homer, Virgil, Horace, Ovid; all the best romances and modern poems.” After her death they found among her papers a commonplace book in which she had entered “an incredible number of selections from historians, poets, travellers.” Her piety and her impulse towards expression were both shown in the many “resolutions, contemplations, prayers and devotions” she left in written form. Of the extent to which both Mrs. Evelyn and her daughter carried their work in painting and enamel I have already spoken.
The Evelyn household may stand doubtless as one of many where, without any tinge of pedantry or any especial outward manifestations of learning, there was yet a natural interest in arts and letters, an interest shared, in quite a simple, normal way by all the members of the family.